I am busting out of my own skin and it’s only the 8thday of the first month of the new -year when I started this blog...If life has started out this good for me then imagine what the rest of this year holds.
I want to share with you today the ‘most inspiring’ true story that I know has not only affected myself but guarantee to affect you too and it starts out with me telling you I thought I was never any good with personal relationships hence the failure of my own marriage after 11 years.
I know you can fail many times at something until you succeed there is a quote by Napoleon Hill that fits this story...(Before success comes in any man's life, he's sure to meet with much temporary defeat and, perhaps some failures. When defeat overtakes a man, the easiest and the most logical thing to do is to quit. That's exactly what the majority of men do.)
I did find myself how-ever in another relationship following the termination of my ‘marriage contract.’ I know this is going to put a smile on your face when I tell you my secret...and now my whole family will know too...
In August of 2010 I made the decision to end my 5 year relationship with a loving man whereby we both were not serving each other well, in other words we both knew it was failing in slow motion and luckily for me I had acquired all the right tools and information to “handle it” I really mean handle it mentally and emotionally, thanks to my personal growth I have developed and learnt, along with a community of like-minded people who surround me. I have not told anyone about my situation probably only 3 people I trust have known about it, you know who you are.
I even had my parents here with me in October 2010 who did not know. I truly could not see the point in letting them know and I wanted to spend my time with them and enjoy them being here to which I actually gained more growth and confidence to become independent on my own. Every-day they were here I would wake early to find myself in “tears of gratitude” for having them with me it was such a powerful feeling, they did not need to know a thing, everything was taken care of....so beautiful!
Now that you and my family know I now want to let you in on the “kicker” for 2011...if you thought this was it, wait for it...yes there’s more...
I recently met a man who I have known for around 3 months only, we would chat about leisurely things, I love fishing, camping and golf, he loves fishing and camping we really had and still do have an excellent connection with each other. One day he asked me if we could chat, of course we did and to my surprise he told me he wanted to be with me, wanted to leave his wife after (wait for it).......27 years of marriage.
It sent me into a mild state of shock (that’s not the ‘kicker’) the kicker is I ended up helping this man just by being brutally honest, upfront with a few words of wisdom that inspired him to stay and rekindle his 27 year marriage to his beautiful wife...
To me...that is ‘GOLD’ I feel so blessed, alive and best of all loved by many.
Not only have I squashed years of all the limiting beliefs about my own personal relationships and marriage, I have also helped in the process of healing another’s heart...I could write a book on it, nothing else matters...This is the ‘kicker’............ and I am in love with life.
