"CHILD LABELLING"

  

One of the most frequent, undiagnosed habits a parent, neighbour, friend or relative can do is to put children in categories labelling them which can really DAMAGE their perspective and general view of how they see themselves.

Most innocently, some don’t even know what they have done by auto-suggestion and on-going thoughts about the child. Taken for granted in the normal or usual way you might say yet more than likely everything that is thought of and suggested has been done through a limiting belief system of the person or people thinking it.

Belief system’s that have been set up by past conditioning and fear of the un-known. A crisis in the making for anyone who has either been subjected to labelling or has labelled by someone else, there is no difference between the two so the common denominator is that the outcome is fear, shame and embarrassment because of the obvious label put to the child and the same applies to the one labelling them.

The WIN, WIN situation is set up nicely and the only detail here is your perspective of that. Win because both the child and other person or people have convinced themselves and settled for the un-natural act of “Child Labelling” for life!

The pivotal point to remember and to apply is in-fact the opposite of any un-natural thought and thinking towards these adhesives. Stop the drama of un-wanted negative forces in your mind and continue ON-WARDS and UP-WARDS to challenge yourself about these beliefs and get your answers from within rather than relying on outside sources, clinical studies, negative media, friends or relatives.

As a parent, teacher, mentor, friend, neighbour, relative you deserve to seek the truth inside, nothing from outside influences will ever contain your truth.

First and foremost, a mother has the intuitive nature towards their own children and by all respects is usually the first to have insight.

It's not what you SAY that's important it's how you FEEL about what you SAY

Just the other week while going through my daily routine of asking myself how I felt today, I realised just how incredibly contented I felt about myself in general. This is something I do daily to gauge how I am travelling towards goals in my life, at that moment everything seemed to slow down as if I was watching a movie of myself in slow motion, it then fast-forwarded a little and played again at normal speed which to me felt like I had just seen myself change dramatically from one way of thinking directly into another new, transformed and exciting way that it meant I had actually expanded my own little universe and acquired the knowledge I needed to feel differently.

It was a 'Paradigm' for me and one of a few that have started showing up in my thoughts about 'how I really feel'. This is something I have asked myself for quite a long time without really getting a sense of complete satisfaction and the only answer to this was allowing one's self to be open to the change you are looking for. Again something I have found to be very difficult to master until now, so my thinking was obvious and closed to this notion.

I heard someone say once that 'your mind is the most powerful thing you have so any resistence to great change will exist because some people have very powerful minds' to me a paradigm in itself as I comtemplated not only myself but many other people who have very 'powerful' minds, and of course I had this powerful mind so in my own world I feel special as we all should.

I was able to relate this very thought to the people closest to me and und to have more of an understanding about their own mindsets and resistence to changes in their lives. It's a beautiful thing to validate about others close to you which also can bring you closer together within your personal relationships and family lives.

I understand the knowledge I have now learnt and the skills attained by me through the application of and the shift in paradigm's that have helped me speak the words but better yet feel the authenticity of them.